Are females suppposed to shave their "private" nouns...?

I'm 13 and i wanna have a thin on top private area..
are u supposed to shave it or procure it waxed
and how do shave on ur chops of the private area, i'm afraid i'm going to label it bleed or something
also how r u supposed to shave ur armpits Well i find it a lot better shaved. So do guys lol. Hmm and how? its kinda knotty to explain, just use a brand unsullied razor so its sharp. Def trim first tho! as much as you can or u will cut yourself. put soap all over up well and take heed, thats all i can voice lol. And armpits the same path, used a sharp new one and bubbles up well. Anb btw, i do shave the maw.. i dunno lol.. you just own to hold it down so can get at it better lol complex to explain
you should go to your mom in the region of this